Comments on: How to Avoid Shaming Your Child – And Keep Strong, Loving Boundaries https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/ Where the Science of Psychology Meets the Art of Being Human Mon, 17 Aug 2020 19:55:28 +0000 hourly 1 By: Karen Young https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-135750 Wed, 27 Dec 2017 22:26:44 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-135750 In reply to M.J.

Thanks for the feedback. It makes sense – I’m on it.

]]> By: M.J https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-135506 Tue, 26 Dec 2017 19:06:39 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-135506 In reply to Sally.

I agree that a clear definition of shaming is needed. I really enjoyed this article and it reinforced many of my own thoughts and ideas. It just missed the definition which then influenced my reading of the article. What I would be interested in reading is an article that helps parents identify keys when they are possibly shaming. I don’t think we as parents realise when we are doing it or notice it when we notice behaviours our parents did that affected us that we now do to our own children. There are some valuable guidelines here I would love to read more about this topic. Thank you for a useful and practical read.

]]> By: Kathy https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-135492 Tue, 26 Dec 2017 17:14:33 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-135492 In reply to Hey Sigmund.

Just wanted to thank you for including examples in your response. I was having some difficulties imagining what I should/should not be saying when defining boundaries with my 2 year old. I do try to say things like “It’s okay to be upset/angry, but we can’t throw/hit/etc” (our most common one), but sometimes I do revert to a “why can’t you just listen to me?!”.

]]> By: Doing Good Together https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-135215 Sun, 24 Dec 2017 15:36:20 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-135215 Thank you for this very important article. We need to remember to teach children (and ourselves) that kindness doesn’t apply just to others; we must also be kind to ourselves as well. That means kids must be allowed to have emotions, make mistakes, and show vulnerability without risk of being ridiculed, shamed, or made smaller. Let’s focus on lifting others up and praising the behaviors we want to see.

]]> By: Amara Marie https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-130208 Tue, 28 Nov 2017 15:02:18 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-130208 ok thank you

]]> By: Karen Young https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-130095 Tue, 28 Nov 2017 01:54:23 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-130095 In reply to Amara Marie.

yes

]]> By: Karen Young https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-130094 Tue, 28 Nov 2017 01:54:05 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-130094 In reply to Amara Marie.

December 2015

]]> By: Amara Marie https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-129930 Mon, 27 Nov 2017 15:38:20 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-129930 And is this a blog

]]> By: Amara Marie https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-129929 Mon, 27 Nov 2017 15:37:41 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-129929 In reply to Karen – Hey Sigmund.

Karen when was this article published.

]]> By: Karen - Hey Sigmund https://www.heysigmund.com/how-to-avoid-shaming/comment-page-1/#comment-62597 Mon, 23 Jan 2017 06:08:07 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=1717#comment-62597 In reply to Katie.

You’re so welcome Katie.

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