Comments on: Mindfulness: What. How. And The Difference 5 Minutes a Day Will Make https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/ Where the Science of Psychology Meets the Art of Being Human Mon, 17 Aug 2020 19:53:19 +0000 hourly 1 By: Sarah https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-228198 Sat, 01 Dec 2018 20:53:15 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-228198 Thank you for this article! I am a 19 year old girl with issues that can be traced back to my father. I moved out at 18, fresh out of high school, to get away from the toxic behaviors he brought. I was anxious and depressed for a long time, thinking that something was just wrong with me. After moving out, I realize the anxiety and pressure that was put on me was not my fault and I can be normal. I have grown up significantly (sooner than I needed to) and have grown out of my anxious life.However, being young with parents still together makes the cut from my father particularly hard. There are times where I will see him act not so terrible and second guess cutting him out of my life. This article was shared by one of my Facebook friends and I bookmarked it after reading it. I still come to tears sometimes after thinking about my father and our relationship, but articles like this help me realize how OK I will be when it has ceased.

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By: Julie kent https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-50183 Wed, 07 Dec 2016 19:58:32 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-50183 Way being mindful has help me, I used to drive on autopilot, and was a poor driver, I am now far more aware of what I’m doing and I am a calmer driver. My memory has improved, my mood has evened out, rather than hi peaks and low troughs. Dealing with the public, I am less judgemental about customers, and because I’m happier, I’m finding people are nicer to me.
My advice is practice, it gets easier and the benefits are genuine.

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By: Karen - Hey Sigmund https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-44478 Tue, 18 Oct 2016 01:17:17 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-44478 In reply to Kaizer.

You’re very welcome. I’m pleased it was helpful.

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By: Kaizer https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-44426 Mon, 17 Oct 2016 11:41:35 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-44426 For someone who has been on the fringes of meditation (the very outer fringes) this article has helped me understand what it really is all about and more importantly how simple it is. Thanks you

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By: a j marr https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-39602 Sun, 04 Sep 2016 15:33:47 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-39602 here is a new interpretation of mindfulness you may find of interest

A New Interpretation of Mindfulness and a Simple Proof

Arguably the most influential non-religious movement to advance personal happiness and satisfaction in present times is the variant of meditation called ‘mindfulness’. Simply defined, mindfulness represents continuous non-judgmental awareness. But the converse of non-judgment, namely making judgments, may entail negative outcomes (perseverative judgments as represented by rumination, worry, or distraction) or positive ones (non-perseverative judgments on what to have for dinner or what route to take on the way home). Perseverative cognition is uniquely correlated with stress, anxiety, and depression, but non-perseverative thought (as well as thinking of nothing at all) is correlated with relaxation, positive affect, and feelings of happiness. Thus it may be concluded that the definition of mindfulness over-prescribes the type of cognitive operations that need to be curtailed in order to attain positive emotional outcomes. It follows that the definition of mindfulness must be attenuated to represent the avoidance of perseverative judgments alone. By no means does this invalidate mindfulness, rather it merely determines the type of judgments we should be mindful about, and allows one to be easily mindful all of the time rather than from time to time that is the practical result of avoiding all judgment, and significantly enhances the argument for its practice.

This definition of mindfulness complements the ‘perseverative cognition hypothesis’ which associates the debilitating aspect of stress with perseverative cognition alone. As advanced by the psychologists G. Brosschot and JF Thayer, “The perseverative cognition hypothesis holds that stressful events cannot affect people’s health, unless they think repetitively or continuously (that is, ‘perseverate cognitively’) about these stressful events. Stressful events themselves are often too short, as are the physiological responses to them. Therefore, the physiological responses during these stressors are unlikely to cause bodily harm. More importantly, many stressful events are merely worried about, or feared in the future, while they often do not happen or do not have the feared consequences. Nevertheless, the body reacts with prolonged physiological responses to continuous thoughts (perseverative cognition) about these stressors. Therefore, it is the perseverative cognition, and not the stressors that can eventually lead to disease. In scientific terms, it is said that perseverative cognition is a mediator of the detrimental effects of stress on one’s health.”

How Meditation Elicits Profound Relaxation

Meditative procedures work so distinctively well to counteract stress because they uniquely require the consistent avoidance of perseverative thought for a significant and continuous period of time, and you need to consistently avoid distractive, worrisome or ruminative thoughts for at least an hour for your muscles to fully relax. In other words, full or profound relaxation takes time. When your muscles do completely relax, you will feel a sense of pleasure or euphoria due to the release of endogenous opioids in the brain that is concomitant with profound relaxation. (Citation)

Since distraction is the preeminent cause of neuro-muscular activation or tension, it’s easy to prove this point. Simply avoid all distraction for a timed hour, and see if you can do that for two or three consistent hours a day, and merely record your progress over a few days. You will note that you will feel totally and pleasurably relaxed, a feeling that will extend into your otherwise stress filled day.

And the good thing is that you will be fully rested and have a natural ‘high’, and will not have to take a course on mindfulness, or meditation, or even for that matter read the link to the book that follows! It’s that simple.

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By: Hey Sigmund https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-35171 Fri, 22 Jul 2016 14:51:51 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-35171 In reply to Anne.

It’s definitely worth a try Anne. The research is compelling. I hope it helps.

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By: Anne https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-35096 Thu, 21 Jul 2016 09:41:37 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-35096 Very useful information, I am ready to give it a try. Anything that can assist me now, I am willing. So much of what I have read about anxiety and IBS relates to me.
Thanks.

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By: Hey Sigmund https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-22999 Fri, 11 Mar 2016 03:11:56 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-22999 In reply to Sue F.

Oh Sue that sounds gorgeous! I’m imagining myself there too …

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By: Sue F https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-22996 Fri, 11 Mar 2016 03:09:39 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-22996 Karen, I’ve just come across this article while reading your article on anxiety. I am sitting in my lounge room having a bit of a practice. There is a lovely breeze blowing and it is catching the wind chimes from the neighbour’s verandah. What a lovely way to spend a few minutes.

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By: Hey Sigmund https://www.heysigmund.com/mindfulness-what-how-why/comment-page-1/#comment-19039 Thu, 04 Feb 2016 09:17:21 +0000 https://sigmundstaging.wpengine.com/?p=802#comment-19039 In reply to Kylie.

A whole community of mindful people – what an incredible experience that must have been!

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